Saturday, June 20, 2009

Huh...

I don't look at myself as an 'always involved' person. When I think of myself, I think of myself as the serially single person.

But, looking back at my dating history, it's actually quite rare for me to be single.

So, now, I'm back in the dating pool. Since I haven't done this in awhile, I'm finding myself with a question that's been bothering me a bit.

Now, I'm guessing that the answer to this question is both relative and subjective, but I thought I'd put it out there anyways...

When dating, at what point do you stop seeing other people?

This is something that I've never had to worry about before. I've always been clearly interested in one person at a time. However, as slutty as this may make me sound, I'm seeing a couple of guys right now. I went out with the goal of meeting new people and I guess I succeeded.

To expand my question... how do you start weeding people out? Is there etiquette?

But, mostly, when do you become exclusive? Do you have a chat about this?

God, I probably sound like such a child, but I actually have never been in a position where things like this would matter. I had one serious boyfiend through highschool. I had another in college. Another from the end of college until recently. All of them were aquired doing non-date-hunting activities. All were... unintentional if you will.

Do I wait until it starts to feel icky to spend time with someone else? Will I just know?

Jeebus, I'm such a dork.

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